1 day ago
I’m going to find my own medium solely for my thoughts. I really think thats the only solution here.
Notes: 25600 / 1 day ago
from fght-offurdmns (originally from permeate)
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from dormtainment (originally from letyasoulglo)
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from nohalfwaycrooks (originally from toocooltobehipster)
To donate £5 to the charity supporting the male victims of domestic abuse, text the message: MKDV46 to 70070
Click here to watch the video
At first I though this was a joke
Don’t ignore this Tumblr
Yet they still do even when it’s right in their face.
This reminds me of how a friend of mine was abused by the mother of his child. She was mentally unstable and used to berate him constantly and would smack him in the head all the time. It really pissed me off. Then one night she threw hot coffee in his face and tried to stab him with a screwdriver. The cops hauled him off to jail because she made up a sob story that painted herself as the victim.
Once he left her, he stayed with me and it was a nightmare. She stalked him and me. She would drive by my house obsessively at all hours of the day and night (her muffler made a weird sound so I know it was her). She started showing up at my job, showing up at the places I frequented around town, and filling up my voicemail with dead air. The cops were no help.
One day she got bold enough to talk her way into my home by conning my elderly grandmother, whom I was taking care of, while I was out. She went in my room and went through my stuff (creepy), then found him napping on the couch and attacked him. My grandmother witnessed the whole thing. He grabbed her by the arms, forced her out the front door, and locked it. The cops were called again. They said they’d go and ‘talk’ to her.
The next day we were watching a movie and there was a knock at the door. The police had come to arrest him. She filed a complaint against him and shown off some bruises on her arms from the altercation that she swore were completely unprovoked. My grandmother saw the whole thing since she was in the living room too and testified on his behalf. He still ended up serving jail time.
No one takes male domestic violence victims seriously. They only see males as perpetrators.
#standing up for male victims takes NOTHING away from female victims #this isn’t an either/or scenario #you can pursue justice for male victims and still be 100% feminist #safer world for EVERYONE
But they don’t hear that though.
Notes: 96434 / 1 day ago
from awwwerewolf (originally from iamtallandthin)
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from awwwerewolf (originally from kanyeuniversecity)
Katt Williams on Dave Chappelle: “But Dave Chappelle was decapitated in front of us. And until we deal that. Until we deal with the fact that a devout Muslim was accused of being a crackhead. And until we establish the fact that they said he went to Africa to smoke cocaine when we know they don’t have running water and food over there. When they don’t have paved roads over there. You saying he flew past Chicago and Miami and LA and New York and Detroit, you saying he went past Cleveland and Fort Pierce, Florida, and he went past Okeechobee and Oakland, you saying he went all the way to another country where they not eating? You talking about somebody who has a wife and children, five children, and lives on a farm, he doesn’t live here in Hollywood. You saying you convince people that person was an insane crackhead? And he hasn’t been on movies and TV for eight years is that correct? Ok then don’t tell me about what you wanna tell me, I just watched you decapitate him in front of me… Then when he made 500 million dollars, even though his contract said he was supposed to get half of it, they said he made too much for the contract to be valid, so we’ll offer you 10% of what you made. You mean he made 500 million and they offered him 50? Yes. And he said, “what do you think my fans are gonna say? When they find out you offered me 10% of what I made you.” And they said, “your fans will believe that you’re a crazy crackhead by the time you get home. And my nigga got on a flight in LA and by the time he got to Ohio it was so. And eight years later he hasn’t been in a movie or television and is just now trying to do his real comeback in Radio City Music Hall. It’s bees like that sometimes.”
Wow. I didn’t know Dave Chappelle was Muslim 😃
perspective is everything.
Notes: 10355 / 3 days ago
from awwwerewolf (originally from ericscissorhands)
"I think all villains have something in common: they have something that they need or want very, very badly. The stakes are very high and they are not bound by moral codes or being ethical, so they can do anything and will do anything to get what they want."
6 days ago
Ive been told everything from “Dont focus on now, think ab the future.” To “Get over it.” Realistically this is my fault. I expected people who arent in my situation to empathize with it and thats just not how it works. You won’t get it if you dont live it and I understand that. Period. Sick and tired of saying the same shit to people removed from the situation. So to make this easier I have prepared some answers for the questions/statements I am most frequently presented with:
"How are you?" -Angry.
“How was work?” -Disrespectful.
“Are you ok?” -Really doesn’t matter.
“It could be worse.” -Get out of my face.
“Itll get better.” -Says who?
I think the “it could be worse” is the most disrespectful thing you could say to me btw. It trivializes what my life has been like cuz you compare someones situation directly to mine and in many cases its not that cut and dry.
Walking around feeling this way changes nothing. But tell me what walking around pretending to be happy does for me? If the answer is “nothing as well” then theres something to consider.
End of the day im not talking ab this anymore. To anyone. Unless you graduated in my class, cant afford your medicine or anything else. Oh and have been getting rejected from eveything for coming up on 2 years. Till then? “You dont get it.”
6 days ago
Im gonna go “home” listen to x & y and keep my thoughts to myself.
6 days ago
0-3 today. Think I’m batting 4/515 or so since last year. Why even say anything about it anymore?